While so many people were looking for deals and sales on Black Friday, the women in my family were enjoying a different day. The day after Thanksgiving, the day after giving thanks for what we have and spending time with the people we love in our lives, the idea of Black Friday is not very appealing. The idea of fighting mobs, queuing, and possibly getting hurt just to “get a deal” doesn’t sound like fun to us.
About seven years ago, in our family, we started our own tradition, and I’ve called it “Fortune Friday.” After enjoying Thanksgiving with each other or with our respective families, we get together for some girl time. Yes, we shop, however we frequent craft fairs, gift shops, small book stores, and consignment stores. Not only do we find unique items, we also support small businesses and enjoy the products and crafts of talented local artisans.
When we see Christmas decorations that remind us of our past celebrations, they awaken memories of those who are no longer with us and the holidays we spent with them. We remember, we laugh and maybe shed a tear, but it fills us with a sense of togetherness and family. We feel lucky.
Every year someone comes up with a new idea of how to spend the day. Last year our journey from store to store took us across the countryside. We had no traffic to deal with, no crowds; for us it was a day of relaxation, enjoying the scenery and being together. This year, we support new local stores and of course we made time for our favorite store, which always finds its way on our route.
Our group changes a bit each year depending on who is available to join us. This year, my sister’s granddaughter joined us. She was home for the holidays and we are honored that she wanted to spend the day with us. We hope it inspires you to continue this family tradition with the next generation.
A lucky Friday never disappoints. While we don’t have a specific shopping plan, each of us inevitably finds something unique for someone in our lives. We always find something for ourselves too. We enjoyed a good lunch together and good conversation. At the end of the day, we go home with an even greater appreciation for each other and for the family ties that hold us together. For us, it is indeed “Lucky Friday”.
