Are you one of those poor guys who have to be married and say that my wife screams all the time, what the hell do I do?
Well, if so, you certainly have a problem on your hands.
But you also have a great opportunity to turn your wife’s passion and screaming into something more beneficial to you.
Why do you have problems and have to say that my wife screams all the time
First of all, let me tell you that there is likely to be a great deal of disrespect in your marriage. Your wife screams all the time because she feels like she is in control of the marriage and that every time she screams, you will line up and do whatever she wants.
Why does she think this?
Well because every time she yells at you, you obey so you don’t have to deal with her yelling anymore. All people act this way. Men who yell at their wives do so for the same reason. Children who yell at their parents do so for the same reason. Works.
It is very similar to the cry of a baby. If your baby cries every time you put him in the crib, and every time he cries you go in and take him out, he eventually starts to understand that hey … if I do THIS, THAT happens. Then your baby has conditioned YOU.
Your wife screams because when she does, you respond. And as long as you keep responding, she will keep screaming.
Why else do you say that my wife screams all the time?
Now, there is also another reason why your wife feels good yelling at you. The fact is, if you say that my wife screams all the time, that means your wife feels like she is in control of the relationship. It means that she doesn’t see you as the KING of your castle. That is a problem for a number of reasons.
First of all, if your wife doesn’t see you as the king of the castle, then yeah, she feels good talking to you like shit, ruling your life, and of course yelling at you all the time.
Second, if she doesn’t look at you like the alpha male at home, then she’s not attracted to you … or at least not as much as she could … or should be.
Third … your wife instinctively, even in her DNA, wants and needs a man who is the “man of the house”, “king of the castle”, “alpha male” whatever you want to call him. She screams all the time because she’s frustrated that you’re not, whether she realizes that’s the reason or not. And if she doesn’t see you as that man she instinctively craves, then she will probably go out and find him somewhere else.
Fourth, once he sees you as the man he yearns for, that passion that we will escape from while screaming will turn into a sexual attraction that he actually CANNOT contain because he will actually be attracted to you like he hasn’t in a long time. weather. time … to the core.
If you say my wife screams all the time, it’s because you haven’t established yourself as the alpha male yet.
