You’ve heard women say they “should have seen the signs” after a breakup because their man cheated on them. Well, I am here to tell you that if you look for them, you will find them, that is, the signs that you are cheating.
It has been said that the same unfaithful man will give you a series of signs that he is doing you wrong, I totally agree with that. The problem is that we are either so in love or just scared of being alone, we just ignore what is staring us in the face, hoping it will go away.
Below is a partial list of “Your Man Is Probably Cheating On You If”:
Cell phone problems become the norm…
cell phone lies
-You don’t get good service
-Cell did not take a full charge, that damn charger, and that’s how he died
-Are you in a tunnel, on a bridge, in an elevator? Anywhere you just can’t get a signal
-You lost it or left it – at work, in the car, at your friends house etc…
You just have to work late, AGAIN!
Now, if he’s not in an industry that generally guarantees client dinners and the like, then this is a huge red flag. And if his job requires an overnight stay at the office, but he gets no answer when he calls his hotline, chances are he’s lying.
He becomes the biggest loser
He begins to watch what he eats and joins a gym. If you’ve been nagging him for years to get in better shape and give up because he just wouldn’t change. Then all of a sudden he agrees with you without your asking, sorry but it might be for a new squeeze.
an eager assistant
Do you seem to be losing your mind? Are you wondering if you really chose that new shaving cream for him? Don’t be afraid though, you saw that you ran out of it and will just run down to the store to buy a new one. Did you just say you need to put milk on the shopping list because you’re running low on milk, and he grabs the car keys and says he’ll pick up that little bit? He may be trying to take advantage of a stolen moment with “her.”
Hang up and try to call again
You start getting calls that hang up at home or on your cell phone, or worse yet, the silent call, where you can hear someone breathing. She may have wanted to hear how you sound, or just trying to shake you up a bit.
clean with enthusiasm
Do you come home and head straight for the shower? If you’re not a construction worker or go to the gym every day and don’t like public showers, you’re probably washing away an odor you shouldn’t smell.
The defense remains your Honor
You seem to be arguing more these days, especially over minor things. He is really hypersensitive and will go berserk at the smallest thing before he stomps. He can give Perry Mason a run for his money because this is his “get out of jail free” card with an added bonus that you don’t call him, because hey, you’re mad too, right?
And the biggest sign on your face, the most important too Ladies:
Your gut says it is
A woman’s intuition is a very real, very strong and often ignored sense that God has given us. If you feel that things are a little off, that things are not quite right, you may be right. And in this time of deadly disease, she must not only take care of her heart.
So you may not want to hear this, but take it from someone who has been there, you need to be a woman and find out what you don’t want to know. Ask him directly or find out on your own, but do it now.
I don’t mean to sound nasty or harsh, I just think you (and I) deserve better than being disrespected.
good luck to all of you
