Google says cute is “attractive in a pretty or endearing way,” and when the word is used in reference to a girl it all gets confusing. All guys are different and it’s a known fact that men suck at expressing themselves. They want to say something and they can say something else. It is because of this fact that girls often find it difficult to understand men. There are hundreds of ways to define a woman; poets, lyricists, and authors are best at the job. Unfortunately, not all men are authors or poets.
The adjective “cute” is based on both the girl’s appearance and behavior. The look is pretty easy to explain in context and most of us already know what I mean. Behavior is also very important here; Guys in particular find a girl cute when she acts like a girl, when she makes faces, or when she dances like no one is looking at her. Some guys even find it cute when a girl tucks her hair behind her ears while talking. To tell you the truth, guys have a different conception of calling a girl cute. For example, in the western part of the world, men often find cute a synonym for casual sex appeal. For example, when your girl wears your shirt, the oversized shirt hanging from her body looks super sexy. Or when a girl raps gangsta hip-hop lyrics and smiles at her man.
Whereas if one goes east to the land of the rising sun, the definition of cute changes, if not drastically, but definitely on some level. In Japan, for example, where people often say “Kawai” which means cute in Japanese to just about anything from a girl to a dress or even a pen, they usually say it based on looks. When people in the East say that a girl is cute, their judgment is mainly based on appearance. I am not saying that behavior does not play a role here, but it is something that comes later. What dominates is how beautiful it looks. When your man calls you cute, or your friend from college calls you cute, what they have meant could be anything.
People often ask a question: is it possible for a girl to be both cute and attractive? Many feel that a girl can be anything she likes; It can be cute, it can be attractive, it can be clever and intelligent, all at the same time. However, it is also interesting to note that some men have a different conception of whether a girl is cute or sexy. For them, a pretty girl is different from a hot girl. They believe that a girl can be one, but not both. They will always call Megan Fox, Sofia Vergara sexy but not cute and Amanda Seyfried, Selena Gomez cute but not sexy. Their concept of attractive and cute is completely different. Although Megan Fox can do cheesy things, it’s her appeal that dominates most of the time. To be honest, the definition of “cute” is still fuzzy, or you can say it is somewhat general. Boys call girls cute at different events. Cute or hot guys love them all. So what you have to do is take the complement and be what you want, be yourself.
