There are times when you know that your husband’s behavior and habits have begun to kill his love for you. This is serious business and you want your husband to mend his ways before it’s too late! Here are some ways you can make him realize he might lose you!
Let me feel your dissatisfaction
There is no point in pretending that you are happy and content when you are not! Don’t put on a false facade and make him feel comfortable. Let him know that you are sad and unhappy with the way things are. Let him realize that he is being pushed to the limit and that it is only a matter of time before he makes the decision to stay in the relationship.
Show him that you’ve had enough!
Don’t let him get comfortable with what he’s doing. Let him know that you will not accept his traps lying down! Stop doing the usual things you’ve been doing for him. If he doesn’t care about your feelings, you shouldn’t worry about his! This will make him review the situation and decide if he can move on without you.
Sometimes a man treats a woman like a slave because he feels that she needs him too much to abandon him. Well, if your husband thinks that you will never be able to live without him, then surprise him by becoming independent. Get a job and get financial security. Then start getting involved in activities that don’t involve you. Soon he will capture the picture and realize that he might lose you!
Two can play the game
If he’s cheating on you, then all you have to do is let him see that two of you can play the game. Get even more attractive and go to the trouble of getting a new wardrobe. Get out more often and form your own circle of friends. This will make him realize that he could lose you to someone else if he becomes too careless and unfaithful.
Talk to him about the situation.
Don’t hide your feelings from him. If you are dissatisfied with the way he is behaving, his cheating, and his callousness, then it is only fair that you let him know. Once you speak your mind, he will have to respond positively or negatively. Either way, you will know the course of action to take.
Leave subtle hints that you’re starting to walk away
There are hundreds of little ways you can show him that you are starting to walk away from him because of the way he treats you. If he has been cheating on you, you should let him know that you will not tolerate him and that you are willing to walk away from the marriage unless he makes a sincere effort to change.
Stay away from him for a while
Make the decision to leave for a while. If you’ve never been away from him, this will surprise you. He will start to hate the idea of you walking away from him. This is a great opportunity to think ahead and make a decision about your marriage. The fact that you made a move away from him will make him realize that he might be losing you.